It's a pain ... what's that right now?
No one can easily forget the 2013 Rajaramani movie. Picture hit Arya, Nayantara, Jai, Nasriya is the movie directed by Adly. At the first film of the film, Adli has broken the identity of Shankar's assistant Adli. Although many criticized Rajarani as a duplicate of the movie maunaragam in the minds of the Tamil people, there were a lot of difference between the two. The film's embroidery was only slightly agreeable.
Adli has shown the love of Rajarani in the movie. There are scenarios on two different angles about the life after the failure of love. There will be a lot of sensational views. In particular, Nayantara will tell Aryan that Jai is still alive. Then there will be a conversation between Arya and Jai. Then the film will end as Nayantara and Arya join together.
In a conversation between Arya and Jaai, Jai is a passionate voice for Arya about Nayantara's loss. This text is tied to that verse. Here is the verse,
"My daddy sent me to the village of Adyci, and I was afraid. Wow, let's go, let's wait, all the time. But the love of all the lovers behind is a good life, "Jai is talking about as if he is not disappointed.
"I agree, it's Missing. It's a pain. What do you do now? She can not forget me. That's why I drank, my friend told me to trap. "
This verse. It affected me so much. Some of my friends have not fallen in love. So, I have seen the victims. I felt their pain through their words. The dialog in Rajarani film above has matched my friends. Although my friends never lost their love, they are not ready to forget the lover. Both men and women behaved the same way. (Here the Valentine applies to both sexes, lover and lover)
As soon as they begin to love, they begin to think that their lover is the world. It changes the significance of everything accordingly. Love makes someone feel lucky in the world. Love songs are just like the one who wrote the same for himself and his assistant. Without knowing the time, it gives the feeling of floating in the teaching. No time is spent except for his lover, even if you have time to do it, you will not leave.
I love sharing my college friend's love life here. He is the one who should raise her every morning. When she wakes up in the morning she must first hear her voice. The last one should hear his voice before dinner is too late. When will he have to bathe, what jobs to do, what to wear to the college, and what he should wear in the underwear and discuss her with her wishes. His life was around her. Her life was around him. He does not talk about her. They will fight terribly, but in the next few minutes, nothing will happen. In this day I will be angry with you.
The illusion of love in the life of my friendless, unfriendly, and meaningless friend made me astounded. Why they fell in love and why they separated is their personal decision. But love gave him inspiration to marry her, to go for a good job, to get the consent of the two families and to reach a high level of society.
She is not bored. If his family refused to permit his love, he was planning to get him out of the family and get out of it. She was confident that anyway she would go to work and stand up to her own, even if she could prevent him. The college ended with the same feeling. But the fate played. Their love did not come. Both are separated, so friends are sad for everyone. There may be a mistake both. The two can not be wrong. Who can not be blamed? When they are part of their choice, who can do what. But then I can not forget my friend's difficulties anyway.
His life began to change. Being in charge, he became irresponsible. Allocated everyone. Especially, he left college friends allocated. I do not want to meet anyone. He left all social networks like Facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram. At one point, he threw the cell phone too. None of the friends could contact him.
He left the job. I'm looking for new job
One day, his father came to Chennai to meet me. Asked for a help. He said everything above and asked for help to rebuild his son. When he said he tried to commit suicide twice, I broke down and started crying. At present, he is being treated with a mental health doctor and he does not seem to find great improvement.
The next day I went to town and brought my friend to Chennai. I thought I was talking to him. After two weeks of vacation in the office, I decided to spend time with him. Only then I started to understand.
He did not like him. He realized how his love is as a nuclear weapon, as well as accepting love failure as a nuclear weapon. I did not speak anything old. He will tell me from time to time.
"In the presence of friends, she said that she is my life long and I'm going to marry her. I could not fulfill it. Disgrace. They ask about love, or start to say comfort. That's why I stopped at home. I'm trying to get out of it, but it's not me. If you want to forget her, only her memories circle my mind. "
"Why do we split up and refuse to recall. If I leave my judgments and look from her place, her decision is correct. I do not feel sorry for her. Even though she is an atheist, she must be fine, she must forget me soon, and pray to God as the temple of the temple that she should have a good life. I can understand everything. Now, she is not part of our lives. I have a life that says, my brain says it. But my heart still asks to come back from frustration, sadness and loneliness. "
After that, he rested quiet for a few days. Our college friend, Ellil's marriage, was going to be in Pattukottai. I got the leave too. We go to the daily tea at night.
One night, we had tea in the terrace near Mambalam railway station and were returning to our room nearby. Then he started crying. He could not convince him. The tongue has been pushed to bring him to the room. He was crying all night. As I woke up in the morning, I wiped my eyes. All day long, I did not speak to myself. He refused to eat. For two or three days, he was without food and was without food. I understood his pain. He was in love with his tears.
We went to Pattukottai for the marriage of a friend. In the wedding procession, everyone wondered seeing him playing the game. Odinon, Odinan, until the procession is over. He breathed all his troubles until it was over. He forgot Him alone. He fell unconscious on the road. I hugged him and lay down in the room. He got up and slept well. We ended the marriage and returned to Chennai again.
"The second day from Pattukottai to Chennai, I'm going to town."
"Go there, I'm going to study the MBA." He was gracious in his voice. And I was confident of my friend's talent. Before he went to town, I presented him a new mobile. Do not let that happen. " He was forced to do so. He went to town. From time to time, he will arrive to Chennai. Successfully completed the MBA. The best student of the college was certified by him. Worked in a Japanese company. He grew up gradually and became the Chief Officer of the Indian branch in three years.
I have seen many friends in love like him. They can not forget the pain they have suffered from love failure. Some people come back from love failure. Those who fail in love need to get back to it immediately. Some people get it from the family, and some get it from friends. But many people do not get that rare chance, but they do not have the mood to accept it.
Love is lost and the experience is great. Many of those who love love do not lose their lives. They start life in the same way that they are no longer lost. They work hard to forget the pain and win. No matter what is coming back and success in life, they refuse to forget their lover. The first kiss, the first sparice, the favorite song, the food, the actor, the vehicle, the town, the dreams are a lot of opportunities to remember the lover. They win over it. Everyone in love wants to live with their ex-boyfriend, especially for their ex-boyfriend to lose their difficulties.
When I met my friend recently, I asked him how she forgot her.
"I think of a wife, and then I can see her as a friend or another fellow. So I thought she was dead. She does not search for her on the internet. I disregard her related people. When I talk about her, I will leave it there. The talk about her was just like that. "
But in a broken voice, she said, "I have kept everything that matters to her. Especially her memories are still in my mind. Sometimes I think. She has learned a lot for me. She was like a gem, and she was the one who made her muddy, like a clear river. It is wrong to forget her and forget it. Even if she is my first wife, even forever. Any problem in my lifetime has something to do with her memory. I'm not angry at her. She thought I was not right. Separated. I'm just a part of this sort. "
"The question is why he has accepted the mistake and after the rectification, the question of why he refused to accept me, and I decided that I will find the answer forever.
Finally, he relaxed and said, "I agree, it's Missing. It's a pain. What do you do now? She can not forget me. "
-What is it for you?
